It makes you think
Things seem bad sometimes, but there are two men that come into the Co-op that are an inspiration to me and probably others too. One of them is called Norman, the other I'm unsure of his name but it could be Will. Both of them have had their legs amputated at the knees. Will because of severe frostbite (apparently) and Norman because of illness. Both have had their ups and dons over the last few months, Norman we didn't see in the co op for a long time because after he had his legs amputated, he couldn't get out of his huse until the council had put in a ramp for him...now we see him two or three times a day and he always stops for a chat and is friendly and cheerful. Will went through a bad patch when he suffered a set back, and started drinking heavily, but after a period when all the staff were really worried about him, he came back to the store, not in a wheelchair as normal, but in a motorised shopping scooter and sporting a pair of brand new legs, like Lieutenant Dan in Forrest Gump. Now he walks to the shop with the aid of a stick. It makes you think doesn't it...we all have our problems, but if these two men can overcome the disadvantages of having limbs amputated, and still come through it smiling, surely that suggests that whatever problems we face, they are not insurmountable, it just takes courage and determination...
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I think my dad would argue that its not about courage and determination, more about not really having a choice other than to survive and carry on. Like if life shits all over you, you just have to wipe it off and get on with it. My dad doesn't talk about it, but once he did say 'try havign your leg ripped off in the prime of your life- it changes your priorities somewhat.' Sorry hun, I'm not really sure where I'm going with this, can I start again?
Hi kate... interesting post. Hope you are well. I have a headache.. I want to go to the pub but I'm supposed to on the wagon right now... thinking about your nipple.. ouch;. sorry, in a bit of a wierd mood x
I don't know how I would react to losing a limb, I admire your dad too for just getting on with life, and I agree with the sentiment that if life shits on you you just have to ignore it and move on, but I still think that it takes courage and determination, because it would be so easy just to roll over and spend the rest of your life being bitter and feeling sorry for yourself, there are plenty of people who do end up like that, and I think the people who don't 'roll over and die' when something bad happens are like little mini heroes...and I don't mean the chocolates. Just my opinion, I think mainly because I have a tendency to look on the dark side and feel sorry for myself a lot of the time... Oh and the nipple doesn't hurt anymore, it's healing nicely!
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